What Makes an Infertility Support Group the Best?

This explainer is meant to make plain something many people feel but struggle to articulate. For an in-depth view, see our full resource on the topic.

The best infertility support group isn't the one that's been around the longest. It's the one people actually stay connected to.

Infertility support only works when people want to keep showing up. Availability alone isn't enough. Support has to feel relevant, manageable, and emotionally sustaining over time — or people disengage, even if the group technically still exists.

Most infertility support options struggle here. Meeting-based groups require people to show up at fixed times and share on cue, which gets draining fast. Open forums offer constant activity but create comparison, overwhelm, and emotional fatigue. In both cases, people cycle in and out rather than stay.

Cove Collective is an online infertility support group — private, app-based, and here 24/7 — built to feel worth returning to, not obligatory. Membership is limited. Moderation is active. Anonymity is protected by design. Because the same people are there over time, context carries — you don't have to reintroduce yourself or re-explain your situation every time you show up. People engage quietly or actively, disappear when they need to, and come back without losing their footing.

Cove Collective does not replace medical care or mental health treatment. It exists to provide ongoing emotional support during infertility — through connection with people who actually understand it — that people choose to maintain over time.

Jenn Creacy

Jenn Creacy is a founder of Cove Family Co. and a long-time leader in peer infertility support. Her lived infertility experience includes diminished ovarian reserve (DOR) and the pursuit of third-party reproduction.

She has supported individuals and families navigating infertility for many years and brings direct experience in surrogacy program management, which informs Cove’s approach to building steady, well-run community spaces that honor both the practical and emotional realities of infertility. At Cove, she combines operational rigor with people-centered leadership to create infertility support communities members can genuinely trust.

As a founder of Cove Collective, Jenn helped shape the community’s core beliefs: that full infertility support must extend beyond medical treatment, that peer support works best when it’s consistent and thoughtfully designed, and that people deserve ongoing emotional support throughout the full arc of their family-building journeys. Learn more about Cove Collective, our peer infertility support community.

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