Is Surrogacy Right for Me? 5 Questions to Ask
Becoming a surrogate is a generous and life-changing decision. You’re not only helping intended parents build their family, you’re also beginning a journey that will shape your own life in lasting ways. But surrogacy isn’t right for everyone. Before you take the next step, here are five important questions to ask yourself:
1. Am I in Good Physical and Emotional Health?
For your own health and safety, you must meet medical and psychological guidelines. You’ll need to have had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery free of complications, be at a healthy weight, and be free of serious health conditions. Equally important: are you mentally and emotionally prepared for the unique dynamics of carrying a child for another family?
2. Do I Have a Strong Support System?
Surrogacy is a team effort. It helps to have family or friends who support your decision and can provide help during pregnancy and recovery. Having people to lean on—whether it’s your partner, siblings, or close friends—makes the experience smoother and more rewarding.
3. Am I Comfortable With the Legal and Ethical Aspects?
Surrogacy involves contracts, medical decisions, and clear agreements about responsibilities. Are you comfortable trusting professionals to guide you through those stages? And are you prepared to honor the commitment you’re making to the intended parents?
4. What Motivates Me to Become a Surrogate?
Every surrogate has her own reasons for pursuing surrogacy. Take time to reflect honestly on why you’re drawn to this journey. Clear motivations help ensure the experience is positive for you and the family you support.
5. Am I Ready for the Time Commitment?
From screening to matching, pregnancy, and postpartum recovery, surrogacy can be a lengthy commitment. Ask yourself if you have the capacity for this journey alongside your current life stage, career, and family needs.
Surrogacy is a path filled with meaning and connection, but it’s not a decision to take lightly. By asking yourself these questions, you’ll gain clarity about whether this journey feels right for you.
At Cove Family Co., our role is to support you — through education, screening, and matching — so that you move through this journey feeling informed, inspired, and supported.
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